I'm also a hardcore wargamer I guess, but I know the only way I'll ever get 100% realism is to join up and serve Overseas.
Hence I guess I and the majority of us here can be quite forgiving when a new tactical wargame is released that doesn't include ALL the detail as long as it has the IMPORTANT details (like the correct vehicles for the period simulated, effects of C&C and morale etc)
So please don't speak on my behalf, just say YOU have issues with ToW and leave it at that.