Check out Band of Brothers. It's a little selective, with a new member admissions process. It is a nice, well run site with sociable players, and an active forum.
Check out the BAR & Stats. It's all automated. Very cool. (The BAR is the ladder manager). Take a look in Kilroy's Awards, too. Under the Campaign Games button on the top button bar, look at the Italian Campaign. Very nice.
May not be what you are looking for, but has about 10 tournaments ongoing right now plus two campaigns and another in the hopper to start in a couple of weeks.
We brush our teeth, too.
[ May 24, 2002, 03:50 PM: Message edited by: -Havermeyer- ]