I second that Altipueri. True of a number of my relatives who served, fought or lived through it. Morale is rightly very important in the game...
As it goes, my grandmother was a wireless op (and other jobs I think - she's been dead since 1979 so can't ask) on AA on the south coast.
Indeed Monty does have a reputation as a 'bit of a dick' - clearly this was the case and Eisenhower spent a lot of energy sorting stuff out - he clearly valued him as a commander though. This is often a polarised debate between US and UK - probably not helpful if we want to get as close to the facts as possible. Saving Private Ryan's exclusion of any Brit and Commonwealth references with the exception of slighting Monty probably didn't help either
For a book written by a participant and really biased towards Monty I recommend, 'Victory in Normandy' by Major-General David Belchem, head of Monty's Operations and Planning Staff throughout the Normandy campaign. I haven't googled to check if in or out of print (I got mine second hand) but this book is particularly strong, as you might imagine, on the logistics and preparation of the initial assault and then the challenges of supply etc.
Lawrence