I may be a bit late coming in on this conversation, but here is my 2 cents worth:
Pak40 is absolutely right about veteran infantry. If I am going to buy a company I will always buy infantry. Despite JasonC, there is nothing 'gamey' about this at all. Pak40s allusion to 'Band of Brothers' is a case in point. This type of exceptional soldiering happened all the time! A veteran Company Commander can turn a battle. That alone makes it worthwhile. I have played PBEMs with Pak40 and he did beat me using veteran SMG squads. I did not complain? No I congratulated him on his tactics (I was completely surrounded!). In fact, I purchased a Sherman Jumbo (something some of these CM reality snobs would dissaprove of)
and it was knocked out easily by Pak40.
Veteran is not gamey!
Commander, I would not bother with playing JasonC. It would probably not be a fun game.
When you came up with the idea for a 5000 point QB I accepted because it would give me a chance to use weapons and units I normally don't in a PBEM. I am sure that the unit purchases we both made would be considered by some to be 'gamey'. Still the points offset the advantage. If one spends 350 points on a veteran 240mm Arty FO, one would expect to destroy at least 350 points of enemy forces (shattering 2 infantry platoons and disabling a tank for example). This does not always happen and it depends on the skill of both sides. If one buys and Ubertank (sic) for 300 points then will it be able to battle and take an objective held by a regular company of Volksturm single-handedly? Unlikely if the the Volsturm player is any good.
Yes, Yes... I know that there are examples when a Vet / Crack / Elite XYZ unit cost is lower than its ability to do damage to the opposing side. But overall, the points are balanced between quantity, quality AND utility. (a flame hetzer is a tough nut to crack under short 75 rules, but it will not single handedly win the battle!)
OK thats my rant. I generally agree with most of the helpfull comments here regarding vet or not to vet. Sad that some must "vet" their frustration by insulting others.