Ok, since we might as well hold our breath on any REASONABLE way to find other people to play tcp/ip games, I have come up with an alternative.
I have changed my icon in Gameranger to the CM icon. I have already found people who contacted ME for tcp games simply from this change (I did it quite on the spur of the moment and didn't have any cool icons for GR).
My idea is that everyone who is looking for a game of CM should change their icon to the CM icon in GR. Then when you log on, you can instantly identify other CM players.
Instant games, no waiting for the web board or emails...just go and play.
Anyways, the current method of finding players STINKS.