JerseyJohn
Once again your posts are very interesting to read, even more after your first one on that USA-and-the-world-topic. You seem to have a well reflected opinion on that (as I expected of you after reading many of your posts on other topics ) and I agree with you.
But if you were a politician and your posts were a speech, a TV-report in the News would tend to focus on your first statements rather than your following explanations. But statements like that invoke Anti-Americanism all over the world, just because one couldn't hear the full speech. Today's media go too much after sensations, with a tendency to neglect well balanced information. As a result you only see (on TV) people demonstrating against the USA, burning flags and the like. Or Bush said "crusade" in the Iraq context and you could read this in all Newspapers over the world for weeks. And politicians all over the world are asked by reporters what they think of that crusade-statement. Those answers tend be negative towards America and so on. So I think the impression that America and Europe had increasingly unfriendly relations is also caused by the media.
But there are no real differences between the people in America and Europe except one: Europe doesn't feel as threatend by Sept. 11th as the USA do. That is the main reason why Europe is against that war, not some sort of Anti-Americanism. Rude statements by Bush and Rumpsfeld didn't help to convince the Europeans but gave the impression that they expected their "vasalls" to follow. Basically most Europeans simply don't think that this war is necessary, but that has nothing to do with Anti-Americanism though it may easily be perceived as such.
Even though I don't approve this war as it came to be, I think that a diplomatically more skilled American President could have convinced the UN to officially "allow" this war and thus avoided hostile reactions towards the US by the people in the other Middle Eastern states. The Kosovo-war also wasn't approved by the UN and still there weren't nearly as much hardcore-pacifists as today - because some wars are simply necessary and others are not.
If in the long run this war is the starting point for a solution of the problems of the region it will be justified by history. But right now I think it is too early to say it was justified or not because the long term results might be just about anything from a free and democratic (if not in the Western sense) Middle East to a Middle East in chaos with increased terrorist activity. Time will tell...