"As a gentleman with apparently 30 award view(?)" you seem very arrogant & childish to respond like that.
Anyway, a lot of people do not get that CM is a simulator, not a game. And no it's not an excuse, let me explain it.
What you see on screen isn't what's happening in the simulator. There's a lot more going on than what's visible or known to the player, for example a bunch of soft factors such as "Experience, Morale, Leadership, and other elements operate at the individual soldier level and collectively transform how units behave", these factors go way deeper than you think, you