Ok problem fixed! For some reason i could play the tutorial normal but the rest i had to play as administrator. When I did that and moused over buttons nothing would match up, I had to have the cursor at least 3 inches under a button to activate it and this meant that during a game I couldnt back the map up, I would have to turn 180 degrees go forward then turn 180 again! UNACCEPTABLE!!!! so I maxed out my game play resolution and this solved the problem! At least for now.......