I response to CombatGeneral... I think that CM would definatly help in the real world. I am not talking about what type of man a general is... sure, character has alot to do with a General, but we are talking about basic infantry unit command so that whole character thing had nothing to do with what I meant. Combat Mission gamers have an "eye" for combat.
Take painter as an example, a normal person looks at a landscape and sees trees, rocks, etc etc. A person who paints alot looks at a landscape and they see every little detail. Colors, textures, everything jumps out at them and they apply it to painting (even if they are not painting, it becomes second nature)...
Now take your enemy (a DOD player or whatever) and show them a village. They see buildings, trees etc etc...
You take a CM player and he is already placing his guns in concealed areas and already planning out an ambush of some sort. Don't any of you tell me you've ever looked at a scenery and imagined placing units
Now, of course some things do differ, as CM is just a simulation, but I think after awhile the FUNDAMENTAL tactics and ideas simulated in the game become second nature.
So, I DO think that a Combat Mission player would be in a much better condition to command a real life force than a DOD player, or any person for that matter.